Episode 11: For myself, a lifestyle kinkster, a mindset dictates much of my kink interactions and how I live my kink lifestyle. The distinction between Dom/sub (D/s) and Master/slave (M/s) power exchange dynamics …
How To Find A Sub
Dear Mistress: I would like to know the process in trying to find a sub. What works? Signed, Looking But Not Finding Dear Looking, It really depends on where you are looking and how often …
Episode 10: Interview with Monopoly with Bloom Community
Episode 10: Interview w/ Monopoly from Bloom Community I remember our first episode where we spoke about getting involved in your local Kink community through a website called Fetlife. On Fet, a user can consume …
MidnightLady’s First Punishment Scene: Pt. 2
The Punishment: Pt. 2 I knew I was well and truly punished. I also knew it wouldn’t be over until my Master had thought I had suffered enough. I drew from the reserve …
How To Ask For Play?
Dear Mistress: How do I go about asking my Dominant partner for play & other needs and wants in the context of a D/s dynamic? There are a few things to consider here in …
MidnightLady’s First Punishment Scene: Pt. 1
The Punishment: Pt. 1 Well, it happened. The day I didn’t ever think would happen. I packed my toys to go to The Keep as I would have on any other day. …
Mistress Gabrielle: The Smell of Leather: Pt. 4
Mistress Gabrielle’s “The Smell of Leather: Part 4” He swallowed the groan of pleasure and pain so that she would not hear it and – god forbid – stop what she was doing. She …
Is it Poly or an Open Relationship?
Dear Mistress, Is a polyamorous D/s relationship the same thing as a open relationship with a play partner/sub? We have a collared submissive. He’s allowed to find other partners that we don’t play with. We …
The 31 Year Old Virgin
Dear Mistress: I’m a guy who identifies as a submissive. I feel uncomfortable telling possible future sex partners that at the age of thirty-one I am still a virgin. Do you have any advice for …
I love pegging: Does that make me gay?
It doesn’t make you gay. Straight people love anal play too. Some things to consider: Do you enjoy pegging where the top is a woman or a man? If you enjoy both, then you …