How To Find A Sub

Dear Mistress: I would like to know the process in trying to find a sub. What works? Signed, Looking But Not Finding Dear Looking,   It really depends on where you are looking and how often …

How To Ask For Play?

Dear Mistress: How do I go about asking my Dominant partner for play & other needs and wants in the context of a D/s dynamic?       There are a few things to consider here in …

Is it Poly or an Open Relationship?

Dear Mistress,    Is a polyamorous D/s relationship the same thing as a open relationship with a play partner/sub?    We have a collared submissive. He’s allowed to find other partners that we don’t play with. We …

The 31 Year Old Virgin

Dear Mistress: I’m a guy who identifies as a submissive. I feel uncomfortable telling possible future sex partners that at the age of thirty-one I am still a virgin. Do you have any advice for …