Episode 48: The Responsible Bottom

Episode 48:     Once you have been in the scene for several months, it’s important to be a good kinkster in the kink community.  Take pride in yourself & maintain a positive reputation.  The …

Episode 47: Do You Have What It Takes for a Power Exchange Dynamic

Episode 47:    When I think about what it takes to maintain any relationships, let alone a kink power exchange dynamic, it can be daunting.  Relationships in general take a lot of work, compromise, dedication, …

Episode 46: Journey to Being Kinky

Episode 46:   When I remember the start of my journey and it’s progression through my life, I recall those days as the best times of my life.  I was deeply immersed in my local …

Episode 45: Aftercare for Tops & Bottoms

Episode 45:    When we talk about aftercare as part of the kink scene, you immediately think about the aftercare for the bottom who just experienced a spanking or rope bondage scene.  In fact, tops …

Episode 44: Slave Heart & the Alpha Slave

Episode 44:     As the proud owner of a slave heart, I can say that when I’m providing service to my Sir and or Mistress Gabrielle, there is a joy in my heart that expands …

Episode 43: Edge Play on Steriods

Episode 43:       Extreme Edge play is a very difficult scene to portray and to witness.  Things like Race Play, Gun Play, even Rape Play, if done, should be done more in private than in …

Episode 42: M/s Dynamics: Total Power Exchange

Episode 42: Total Power Exchange is part of the D/s power exchange dynamics. ML Be sure to download the free info-graphic below!

Episode 41: Animal Play with Sophie Minkman

Episode 41: There is a certain fascination with animal play that I both understand and yet don’t understand the appeal.  I can see that role playing gives the player a different perspective and a chance …

Episode 40: A Chat With Leather Gamer about Chastity

Episode 40: Leather Gamer is a switch, bisexual, cross dresser, service top/submissive & leather man.  He is my husband and we have been in the kink lifestyle together since 1999.  In that time we have …

Episode 39: A Chat With Zahra Stardust

Episode 39:      Zahra Stardust is queer, a feminist, artist & scholar. Her new book is entitled “Indie Porn: Revolution, Regulation, & Resistance.  Listen in as we chat with her about her new book & so …